Hayes Grier is not a virgin, I can confirm this for sure.
Hayes goes to Davidson Day highschool in NC, and one of my friends went there for 2 semesters before her family moved.
She dated Hayes for like almost 6 months, and then they broke up. She said she only went out with him because he was famous and stuff, but anyway they broke up when she moved.
I won't tell you her name because that's like private info but you can see her here (on the right):