Oh-h-h-h-h-h...just been to the Landmark Tavern in Tenino, WA...is there a way to hold onto this feeling forever?
One Marguerita + one raspberry vodka later, and life is good...at least here in Tenino...dancing and billiards, and maybe they were playing the Credence Clearwater Revival just because us old folks were there...anyway it seems that all the oldsters from the Sandstone apartments show up at the tavern every Saturday night...hobbling out with our canes and crutches to show the younger folks (once again) how to have a good time, how it's done...?
How to hold onto this feeling forever, the wisdom of the Blurtit habitués, please?

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Didge Doo answered

Reminds me of my visit to a place called Crescent Head on the north coast of NSW. I've never seen anywhere so laid back. Even the kids who worked in the local shops did it barefoot.

One night we went to a local club for dinner and, as we were finishing, a live jazz band started up in the next room. They were mostly ignored but they were really good so we spent the rest of the night in there listening to them.

We had only worn joggers -- not the best for cutting the light fantastic -- so we kicked off our shoes and danced in our socks. We had the floor to ourselves most of the time but occasionally another couple or two would join in for a while.

I asked one of the guys in the band how he felt about being ignored and he said they were used to it. They had a monthly engagement at the club and rarely had anybody sit down and listen to them, or dance, but he said the money was good and they enjoyed playing together.

I can't say it was representative of the Australian culture but then, I can't imagine such a town existing anywhere else. I've never been anywhere else quite like it. It was unique.

Glad you enjoyed your night, Virginia. Wish I could give you a star for the question. :)

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Didge Doo
Didge Doo commented
It may have been, Virginia. Even "Waltzing Matilda" sounds great when it's played by a military band.
Jann Nikka
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Virginia Lou
Virginia Lou commented
Dozy, be sure to peruse the response from The Z...I am definitely SO honored...my Q drew out a wonderful eloquence from both of you...

...wonderful to have a forum to proffer these important questions and them be given such fine profound consideration...
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Jann Nikka answered

You had lots of Shine. 😀😁😂😃😄😅😆😉😊😋😎☺🙂🤗🙄😏😛🙃🤑

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Virginia Lou
Virginia Lou commented
Oh, Otis is such a wonderful influence on us all...yes having first encountered his 'shine keeping all us ladies at the old folks' home warm through an Iowa winter, certainly no reason to give it up now in raincoast Washington State!
Virginia Lou
Virginia Lou commented
...and a fine good morning to you both, Jan and Y&Y...
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
LOL! You are a dear Virginia! :0)
Call me Z Profile
Call me Z answered

Virginia-

I know this is a bit late for the actual party, but since it's you, I'd like to chip in my two cents, if it please you.

I think we all have these *moments* when all the planets seem to fall in line to beget such singularly special experiences, often, especially when younger, we only comprehend after they pass. As we who've reached a certain maturity to recognize and cherish these times as they occur, its a beautiful thing to behold them. I commend and congratulate you on your wonderful evening.

That said, a well-measured dosing of fine drink has made for many a memorable night. The ones we can still talk about proudly in unfamiliar company are the best.

I wanted to also pass on the following brain leakage, though not my own:

"Life is not a matter of milestones, but of moments". -Rose Kennedy.     

As we pass through this mortal coil, that thought becomes clearer; I feel a moral imperative to alert and involve everyone else at that instant. Maybe that's just me, but I've now also acquired a disturbing affection for selfies. My way of dealing with it, I guess.

That leads at last to the final (and possibly pertinent) point of my windy screed: that we are best served to remember these days well, and often, for as Gen Patton was fond of saying, "All glory is fleeting".    -Z 

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Tom Jackson answered

In Perelandra, the second book in CS Lewis' Space Trilogy, Ransom the hero (actually characterized as the "chief instrument" by another in the book) was moving upward and requiring nourishment on that planet.

He came across wondrous tasting fruit and commented he would like to have more, when suddenly, successive trees with constantly better tasting fruits became available to him, and he learned that perhaps he should not seek to repeat a wonderful experience, but rather to look for and taste the even better things that will be made available to him.

That was about 40 years ago for me, and I decided to try adopt that potential for my life.  Over the years I have frequently said to myself (and to others) that I never dreamed that life could be "this" good---and then found myself saying the same thing again within a few weeks of saying it the last time.

But there is nothing wrong with holding on to a such a wonderful experience for at least a short period of time---just be sure that when something better is available that you open your hands and let go of your last wonderful experience so that you can fully grasp the new one.

On a more pedantic note, you chose to consume alcohol with a limited number of the complex congeners which tend to make one sorry about having "imbibed" the previous night.

And apparently, that amount of alcohol was just enough to decathect your superego and relax the adult in your adult to allow the child in your adult to play because it really was safe.

"Memories are made for this."

And something about having life and having it more abundantly.

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Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson commented
In order:

Glad you are in a good place.

I'm aware of Didges's familiarity with CS Lewis. He once indicated to me it had been a while since he had read Perelandra.

Not sure if Lewis came up with the "don't cling, move on" independently. Here's a quote from Wikipedia with reference to his book "The Abolition of Man": ..... the traditional moralities of East and West, the Christian, the Pagan, and the Jew...". Lewis calls this the Tao. Of course he was well read to say the least.

Apropos of basic truths---one of our more recent popes made the comment that he saw the "mark of the Holy Spirit" on the foreheads of ass such peoples.

Vodka is low on congeners; there is some debate about tequila, but it is distilled more than mescal, and it never gives me a problem.

I assume you are familiar with TA phraseology.

Regards...
Virginia Lou
Virginia Lou commented
Dear Tom, no...TA is unfamiliar...?

Also have not come across that intriguing comment from a pope... however none of them have (yet) been teachers for me, at least not directly their presence universally beneficial, of course...
Virginia Lou
Virginia Lou commented
Oh, wait... TA = Transactional Analysis?

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