Yes he is avoiding you, I'm sorry ! Why don't you try getting one of your friends to ask him why he's avoiding you ? That might help. At least you'd know why.

C'mon, you know better than that ! You can't move in with him, because you barely know him if you only contact him with phones and myspace !

He probably always trying not to fall asleep during recording, since he's a hugely famous popstar and everything, so yeah, he probably does drink coffee.