Hi guys, i a new to this forum. I have been wanting to get this off my chest for a long time. I am a christian and i have posted something about this same topic on a christian forum. It;s great to hear your opinions and that some of you here might be christians. For those of you who are not christians, i welcome you all the same.
I wanted to share this with all of you guys as this regards the topic if Selena is a christian or not. I am a 19 year old guy and i live half way across the world. Initially, i had a crush on selena Gomez. The reason was because she seemed different and nice from all the other actors. She is beautiful and i admit that i liked her a lot too( i am human after all:). Furthermore, she dressed up properly whenever she went out in public and was a role model to young girls. However, my respect slightly decreased when i saw pictures of her in a bikini. She wore a purple bikini on her vacation in 2008 and most recently, she was seen wearing a bikini on the set of monte carlo in france.
Now, i know that all of you are going to ask me what is wrong with Selena wearing a bikini and you might accuse me of being old fashioned and crazy. However, i was raised in a conservative family and taught buy my mom and through the bible that the body is a sacred thing that should not be revealed in public. God said that all christians should dress modestly wherever we are as a reflection of Christ's glory and love. If a christian were to wear a bikini, it would be disrespectful to God an yourself. Your body is meant for your spouse alone, not for guys to look at. I know that we must not judge and i am not judging Selena. I myself am imperfect and God has shown me mercy on more than one occasion. What i am trying to say is that if Selena were a mature christian, she would be aware that the eyes of a male are like heat seeking missiles. I know that it is not entirely the girls fault and that guys should control their eyes too. However, tempting us to sin is equally as bad as well.
If a guy saw Selena Gomez in a bikini and tells you that he is not thinking of lustful thoughts, he is lying because none of us are without sin, me included. The point i am trying to make is that Selena wears a purity ring, claims that she is a christian, and then goes on to break the definition of purity by immodestly dressing in a bikini. She is basically telling all the girls that look up to her that it is okay to sell your body on the beach for a few bucks. Once again, i am not judging her guys because i am a sinner who has been saved by Christ. All i am trying to say is that she should realize the consequences of the way she dresses as she is inviting guys to lust after by making herself an object of desire. That is not what a christian should do. If you want to find proof from the bible about how a practicing christian should dress, i will be more than happy to oblige. This is my view and i know that some of you might not have thought about this topic before. Don't get me wrong! I still have a crush on her, but i will respect and believe her claims more if she covered up a little bit more. But then again, who am i say all these things?:) Anybody can comment and please do tell me your views are. I respect all of your opinions and i hope that you respect mine too.
( p.s By the way, if any of you want to ask this question "If Selena can't wear a bikini on the beach, what is she supposed to wear, a burka? " My response is that there are plenty of modest swimsuits out there and even olympic swimmers wear a one piece swimsuit. Wearing a bikini is the same as going out in your underwear. You are half naked.)
I wanted to share this with all of you guys as this regards the topic if Selena is a christian or not. I am a 19 year old guy and i live half way across the world. Initially, i had a crush on selena Gomez. The reason was because she seemed different and nice from all the other actors. She is beautiful and i admit that i liked her a lot too( i am human after all:). Furthermore, she dressed up properly whenever she went out in public and was a role model to young girls. However, my respect slightly decreased when i saw pictures of her in a bikini. She wore a purple bikini on her vacation in 2008 and most recently, she was seen wearing a bikini on the set of monte carlo in france.
Now, i know that all of you are going to ask me what is wrong with Selena wearing a bikini and you might accuse me of being old fashioned and crazy. However, i was raised in a conservative family and taught buy my mom and through the bible that the body is a sacred thing that should not be revealed in public. God said that all christians should dress modestly wherever we are as a reflection of Christ's glory and love. If a christian were to wear a bikini, it would be disrespectful to God an yourself. Your body is meant for your spouse alone, not for guys to look at. I know that we must not judge and i am not judging Selena. I myself am imperfect and God has shown me mercy on more than one occasion. What i am trying to say is that if Selena were a mature christian, she would be aware that the eyes of a male are like heat seeking missiles. I know that it is not entirely the girls fault and that guys should control their eyes too. However, tempting us to sin is equally as bad as well.
If a guy saw Selena Gomez in a bikini and tells you that he is not thinking of lustful thoughts, he is lying because none of us are without sin, me included. The point i am trying to make is that Selena wears a purity ring, claims that she is a christian, and then goes on to break the definition of purity by immodestly dressing in a bikini. She is basically telling all the girls that look up to her that it is okay to sell your body on the beach for a few bucks. Once again, i am not judging her guys because i am a sinner who has been saved by Christ. All i am trying to say is that she should realize the consequences of the way she dresses as she is inviting guys to lust after by making herself an object of desire. That is not what a christian should do. If you want to find proof from the bible about how a practicing christian should dress, i will be more than happy to oblige. This is my view and i know that some of you might not have thought about this topic before. Don't get me wrong! I still have a crush on her, but i will respect and believe her claims more if she covered up a little bit more. But then again, who am i say all these things?:) Anybody can comment and please do tell me your views are. I respect all of your opinions and i hope that you respect mine too.
( p.s By the way, if any of you want to ask this question "If Selena can't wear a bikini on the beach, what is she supposed to wear, a burka? " My response is that there are plenty of modest swimsuits out there and even olympic swimmers wear a one piece swimsuit. Wearing a bikini is the same as going out in your underwear. You are half naked.)