Richard Gere. Especially in his younger days.
I'm with Skip Richard Gere!!
I agree with Echo ... Nobody can compete with Cary Grant. (sigh ...)
My husband of course!
I am trained well! Lol!
But if you said "spouses excluded" then the one who has me hot underneath the collar right now is "Reese" from Person of Interest. The man in the black suit!
When he was younger, Brad Pitt. Now he looks like he is trying too hard. But there is Bradley Cooper or if I were to go for someone older Sam Elliot.